I move out of my home Saturday, March 3. Last weekend after Luis tirade of throwing and yelling has kind of deadened my heart towards him. I cannot feel guilty for such things. For him to be disrespectful to me by trying to bully and deny me rights to even think was wrong. I could care less if the lawyer cost $150 per hour to have a consultation. It was for peace of mind and I did walk away feeling better. I did talk to Luis afterwards and we laid some ground.
I may still go back to the lawyer and submit a counter proposal to make sure things are worded properly and I am not stuck in a bind. Despite having joint custody, hours have to be given to the court and in the current proposal, there seems to be no leeway. I would pay child support and have to provide for all transportation. That is a bit unfair. Even when I was young and my mother had full custody, they either switched or met halfway. That is the proper way. It will work out. It is just a shame that our family is no longer a whole one.
On a strange note, my co-workers are well aware of my divorce and a couple of the guys were trying to set me up with their buddies. Though one of the guys was good looking, he was totally crude. It was a hook down… not a hook up. I just told them to give me time and when I am ready to date again, then I will give a good answer. So, I at least was nice for now. I am not too picky, but hey, I do have standards and Luis would be hard to beat. He did get a lot of good words from the ladies I work with. 😆
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